posted Jan 10, 2012, 5:24 AM by Diane Willcutts
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updated Jan 10, 2012, 5:29 AM
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1. If you have not already done so, request in writing a copy of your
child’s entire educational record.
2. Do not go alone to Planning and Placement Meetings (PPTs, formal
school meetings related to special education). These can be overwhelming for
any parent. Instead, bring a friend or advocate to provide support,
to take notes, and/or to help translate what occurred. One family brought their child's piano teacher, who had great insights about the child and how she learned.
3. Tape record your meetings. PPTs can be confusing. Listening to the
tape afterwards will help you better understand what occurred and will make it
easier to document important areas of agreement and disagreement.
4. When talking with the school team, remove the word “best” from
your vocabulary and substitute “appropriate.” The school is not legally
required to provide the “best” program. The school is required only to provide
an “appropriate” program.
5. Strive to develop a professional relationship, as an equal, with
your school team. Leave your emotions at the door. Getting angry or “venting”
may feel great temporarily. However, giving in to this impulse may damage your
credibility, may hurt your relationship with school staff, and therefore is
likely to harm your child’s program.
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